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VLC Campus Elder Spouse Application

If needed, there is a “Save & Continue” button at the bottom of the form to save your responses and continue at a later time.

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Who is your Campus Pastor?*
What is your first and last name?*
What is the first and last name of your spouse?*
MM slash DD slash YYYY
Do you commit to answering all of the following questions truthfully to the best of your ability?*

MM slash DD slash YYYY
Do you text?*
What is your email address?*
Have you ever been convicted of a felony?*
Felony
Have you ever been licensed, credentialed, or ordained by an organization as a pastor or minister?*
Have you ever had your pastoral license or credentials withdrawn?*
Pastoral license
Have you ever been divorced?*

Please rate your spouse on a “Green—Yellow—Red” scale in the following areas:

“Green” means your spouse has positive, observable behaviors you have witnessed in this category. You have little concern or no concern about your spouse as an elder in this category. Please include a description of how you have witnessed your spouse embody this character trait.

“Yellow” means you are either unsure or have a small concern about your spouse in this category. This is not a disqualifying concern, but it may not be a strength you have observed. Include a description of your concern or observations you have made about your spouse.

“Red” means you have a major concern or a red flag. A “Red” may not be a disqualification for your spouse, but it does represent an important or significant concern you have that needs to be observed or addressed by leadership. A “Red” means this is an area of past or present moral failure, a significant area of immaturity, or an area of significant weakness. Describe your concerns and observations that prompt you to mark this category a “Red.”

Space is given at the end of these questions for you to add context if needed.

Your spouse is known as a mature disciple of Jesus. Their life exemplifies goodness and uprightness, evidence of the fruit of the Spirit, and spiritual disciplines, modeling holiness and humility.
GreenYellowRed
Mature
Mature
Mature
Your spouse has a good reputation from those who know them and are thought well of in the community. They are not thought of as wild or undermining authority.
GreenYellowRed
Reproach
Reproach
Reproach
Your spouse is not addicted to any sort of drug or drink. They do not overindulge in food, drink, entertainment, or any other practice that would draw them away from the Lord or negatively affect their witness as a follower of Christ.
GreenYellowRed
Sobriety & Self-Control
Sobriety & Self-Control
Sobriety & Self-Control
Your spouse takes serious things seriously. They seem to know when a situation calls for gravity, but this does not mean they lack a sense of humor.
GreenYellowRed
Sober-Mindedness
Sober-Mindedness
Sober-Mindedness
Your spouse can be described as a peaceful person who brings peace into the situations and environments they enter into. They are never quarrelsome. They are not easily excitable or angered. They are thoughtful, gentle, and deliberate in their reactions. They have control of their tongue.
GreenYellowRed
Peaceful
Peaceful
Peaceful
Your spouse loves people and welcomes them. They set aside their comfort for the comfort of others. They are thought well of, and people enjoy their company.
GreenYellowRed
Hospitable & Respectable
Hospitable & Respectable
Hospitable & Respectable
You consider your spouse caring for your family, and your children give evidence of the Lord’s presence and being cared for and led well.
GreenYellowRed
Household
Household
Household
Your spouse sees money as something that belongs to God that they are responsible for stewarding. Their generosity and lack of greed will evidence this.
GreenYellowRed
Not a Lover of Money
Not a Lover of Money
Not a Lover of Money
Your spouse cares that things are done right in the church and that people are well cared for. They fix and straighten things that need to be fixed or straightened.
GreenYellowRed
Ownership
Ownership
Ownership
(not necessarily a formal mentorship, though that is welcome) — your spouse is a person who cares deeply for the development of others. They are able to connect people to the word of God, bringing instruction, encouragement, and correction for the sake of their development.
GreenYellowRed
Mentor
Mentor
Mentor

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